Comments on: Yes, I’m Emo & Gloomy http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/ where being happy & pretty matters. Mon, 21 May 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Kaye http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/comment-page-1/#comment-3312 Kaye Fri, 23 Oct 2009 09:15:23 +0000 http://pinkyplue.com/?p=1287#comment-3312 Hi Plue, I'm a lurker here most of the time and I love your reviews. Always so helpful. Regarding your rant, I honestly can relate and understand. I'm working at a job that is *okay* but I can't pursue my real dreams in life because of monetary issues. Since last, last year I suddenly had a lot of responsibilities to handle and all I wanted to do was RUN. I always feel like I'm still a kid and even though everyone thinks I'm very strong, I really am not. I can't vent, I can't cry and I can't give up because there are a lot of people depending on me. So yes, having money drive your life can be a very, very frustrating thing. If you're really not happy with work, I suggest you take a deep breath and find another one. What other people tell you isn't really as important as what you feel and think. Working in a toxic environment really can harm your health (I know because I worked for an abusive boss before) and it's better in the long run to just walk away. Just continue loving yourself, okay? You'll find a way to get past these trials. Hi Plue, I’m a lurker here most of the time and I love your reviews. Always so helpful.

Regarding your rant, I honestly can relate and understand. I’m working at a job that is *okay* but I can’t pursue my real dreams in life because of monetary issues. Since last, last year I suddenly had a lot of responsibilities to handle and all I wanted to do was RUN. I always feel like I’m still a kid and even though everyone thinks I’m very strong, I really am not. I can’t vent, I can’t cry and I can’t give up because there are a lot of people depending on me.

So yes, having money drive your life can be a very, very frustrating thing.

If you’re really not happy with work, I suggest you take a deep breath and find another one. What other people tell you isn’t really as important as what you feel and think. Working in a toxic environment really can harm your health (I know because I worked for an abusive boss before) and it’s better in the long run to just walk away.

Just continue loving yourself, okay? You’ll find a way to get past these trials.

]]> By: Lisa J. http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/comment-page-1/#comment-3310 Lisa J. Thu, 22 Oct 2009 09:58:10 +0000 http://pinkyplue.com/?p=1287#comment-3310 Hi Plue *BIG HUG* Rant all you like!~ It's okay not wanting to be an overachiever. Just do what you think it's right and stop listening to those around you who are giving off negative vibes or nagging you till you just want to bang your head on the wall. At the end of the day, the only person you have to face is yourself so why not treat yourself better? I also want to share a song that I like to listen when I'm feeling down. Hope you like it too. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_vdNqfvAF4 P.S. If you like I don't you email me with all your problems and we can talk about it. Don't worry I'm not some sort of creepy person. Just thought it couldn't hurt to have one more friend. ^^ Hi Plue *BIG HUG* Rant all you like!~ It’s okay not wanting to be an overachiever. Just do what you think it’s right and stop listening to those around you who are giving off negative vibes or nagging you till you just want to bang your head on the wall. At the end of the day, the only person you have to face is yourself so why not treat yourself better? I also want to share a song that I like to listen when I’m feeling down. Hope you like it too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_vdNqfvAF4

P.S. If you like I don’t you email me with all your problems and we can talk about it. Don’t worry I’m not some sort of creepy person. Just thought it couldn’t hurt to have one more friend. ^^

]]> By: prettybeautiful http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/comment-page-1/#comment-3309 prettybeautiful Wed, 21 Oct 2009 14:02:31 +0000 http://pinkyplue.com/?p=1287#comment-3309 hey girl, are u ok? although I don't exactly know what you are going through, I wouldn't say I und or anything. but if u need a crying shoulder or listening ear, i am always here for u. :) hey girl, are u ok? although I don’t exactly know what you are going through, I wouldn’t say I und or anything. but if u need a crying shoulder or listening ear, i am always here for u. :)

]]> By: Irene http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/comment-page-1/#comment-3308 Irene Wed, 21 Oct 2009 12:14:06 +0000 http://pinkyplue.com/?p=1287#comment-3308 Plue, these kind of thoughts plague all young adults. I have them too. The reason you're so bothered with it is because I think you're a naive and straightforward person. You won't survive in an environment full of backstabbers (office politics) the way you are now. I hope your life will improve, mine kinda suck recently too (I caught that damn swine flu virus near my mid-term exam and was bedridden for a week). I got out of the hospital a day before my first exam and missed a good bulk (a whole month of total absence) of my lectures :(. Could not retake the quizs that I missed either eventho I have MCs. Le sigh. I don't know the exact detail of your situation but I know it sucks when all you get are strings of bad luck. It's important not to lose yourself in these trying moments. Good things will come to those who wait. Plue, these kind of thoughts plague all young adults. I have them too. The reason you’re so bothered with it is because I think you’re a naive and straightforward person. You won’t survive in an environment full of backstabbers (office politics) the way you are now.

I hope your life will improve, mine kinda suck recently too (I caught that damn swine flu virus near my mid-term exam and was bedridden for a week). I got out of the hospital a day before my first exam and missed a good bulk (a whole month of total absence) of my lectures :( . Could not retake the quizs that I missed either eventho I have MCs. Le sigh.

I don’t know the exact detail of your situation but I know it sucks when all you get are strings of bad luck. It’s important not to lose yourself in these trying moments. Good things will come to those who wait.

]]> By: stickles http://pinkyplue.com/a-bit-of-this-that/yes-im-emo-gloomy/comment-page-1/#comment-3307 stickles Wed, 21 Oct 2009 08:46:33 +0000 http://pinkyplue.com/?p=1287#comment-3307 First, deep breaths. It doesn't sound like anything you've said is something that any of us out there hasn't thought of before. It's a good thing to question, question why we do the things we do, why we feel the way we do, else, we wouldn't get to live meaningful lives. Granted, I'm just a stranger who likes to read your blog, and don't claim to know anything about you, your life, your ups and downs, but I can only say that you're not alone. I think the upside to being grown up has less to do with money and more to do with being able to choose. You get to live the life you choose for yourself. If you're not happy, choose to live differently. Of course, it won't be easy, nothing worthwhile is, but may as well put your efforts into something that you actually want, rather than let yourself be pushed by easy choices into things that lead you away from what would make you happy. Again, I don't know you, but I hope that you find whatever it is that you're looking for. *hugs* First, deep breaths. It doesn’t sound like anything you’ve said is something that any of us out there hasn’t thought of before. It’s a good thing to question, question why we do the things we do, why we feel the way we do, else, we wouldn’t get to live meaningful lives. Granted, I’m just a stranger who likes to read your blog, and don’t claim to know anything about you, your life, your ups and downs, but I can only say that you’re not alone.

I think the upside to being grown up has less to do with money and more to do with being able to choose. You get to live the life you choose for yourself. If you’re not happy, choose to live differently. Of course, it won’t be easy, nothing worthwhile is, but may as well put your efforts into something that you actually want, rather than let yourself be pushed by easy choices into things that lead you away from what would make you happy.

Again, I don’t know you, but I hope that you find whatever it is that you’re looking for. *hugs*

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